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6 principles of effective negotiation
whether you’re closing a sale or hiring talent—negotiation is everything..

Negotiation isn’t just for boardrooms and million-dollar deals—it’s baked into your day whether you realize it or not. Sales calls, hiring chats, project scopes, even deadlines... you’re negotiating all the time.
But most people wing it—and lose more than they know.
Great negotiators don’t out-talk others. They out-prepare, out-listen, and out-frame. Here’s how to play the game without losing your edge (or your margins).
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Want Better Deals? Master These 6 Negotiation Principles
Negotiation isn’t just for contracts. It’s in every conversation.
Sales. Hiring. Partnerships. Even timelines and project scope.
Every business leader negotiates daily—but most aren’t doing it well.
The best negotiators don’t win by force. They win with preparation, empathy, and structure. Here are six core principles that can dramatically improve your next negotiation:
Always trade, never concede.
Concessions feel like losses. Trades feel like deals. Instead of giving something away, ask for something in return: “If we reduce the scope, can you increase the speed of delivery?” This keeps things balanced—and shows you’re not folding under pressure.Focus on interests, not positions.
A position is “We need 20% off.” An interest is “We’re working with a tight budget this quarter.” When you uncover the why behind a demand, you can explore more creative solutions—and avoid deadlock.Use silence to your advantage.
Say your price, then stop talking. Most people rush to justify or soften their ask. But silence creates pressure—on the other person. Let them respond before you fill the air.Be willing to walk.
This is your biggest leverage. If you’re not ready to walk away, the other party holds the power. Set clear boundaries. Know your limits. And be okay with saying, “This isn’t the right fit.”Prepare, then prepare more.
The most confident negotiators walk in with a plan. Know your walk-away point. Know your ideal outcome. And have data, examples, or alternatives ready to back it up.Frame the value—not the cost.
Instead of justifying a $20K price tag, paint the picture of what success looks like. “If this solves the problem you’ve been stuck on for 6 months, what’s that worth to your team?” Shift the focus from cost to outcome.
The Bottom Line: Good negotiators don’t just talk well—they think well. They trade, not concede. Ask why, not just what. And they never walk into a conversation without knowing where they stand.
If you want to close better deals, hire smarter, and protect your margins, start with these six principles.
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